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Comsenz Inc. Design: Dean. DiscuzFans.The 5 Reactions that Guys Will Have When You Tell Them You’re Waiting
April 5th, 2011 by
You’ve been there before: You meet a guy that you like (or a guy that was persistent), you’re hanging out with him (like on a date), and at some point you feel compelled to bring up the fact that you’re waiting till marriage to have sex. In fact, you want to bring it up because you’re secretly hoping that he’ll be supportive, or worst case at least you want him to know what he’s getting into. In my experience, guys’ reactions all fall within one of these five ranges.
#1. Put off
This look reflects the thought: “urgh, seriously?”
Then he runs a mile away, cuts off all contact, and avoids you like the plague.
You should realise that he really isn’t worth any of your time if you aren’t worth any of his. You can tell from his reaction that he was much more interested in sex than in any kind of emotional connection. This often represents immaturity (and/or shallowness) on his part. You’re not just a body that can be used for his entertainment and pleasure. Some girls might be OK with that, but not you.
You’re a human being who deserves the time and effort to be spoken to and loved for who you are — he is the one who will be missing out on the opportunity to be with someone a lot more special than most others. Of course, he’ll never know it. He’ll run away and find lots of casual sex partners of varying quality, and then one day, when he’s older, he will start craving emotional connection. But that deeper side of him will be so under-developed that he’ll stumble awkwardly through relationships and marriage. When you meet him again ten years from now, you will be very glad he did you the favour of running away.
#2. Scared
You can almost see the rotating cogs in his mind. He is scared of the prospect of being with someone who is going to withhold sex. He’s scared that he will be missing out on something that he’s grown accustomed to, and that the relationship won’t be what he wants it to be.
Often, he will think that he can handle it, and then in a few weeks the realization hits him that this is real and not going to change, and it just can’t work for him. Give him points for trying, but you don’t want to be with someone who isn’t able to connect with you on an emotional level.
#3. Confident
He thinks that your “I’m waiting till marriage” stance is just a phase, or something you have said to play hard to get — nothing his charm and personality can’t alter.
Beware of these guys! He can be tricky to deal with and will hide his motives very well. He may manage to lead you on for a very long time and after a while of getting nowhere, this previously confident fellow will suddenly realise that you were serious and in which case he can, therefore, no longer be bothered with the chase.
The first sign to spotting a fake is the fact that he tends to go along with it too much. For instance, he will tell you everything you want to hear, such things as, “I have even considered it myself” and “I think it is a wonderful idea.”
The thing is, it isn’t just an idea that suddenly came to you in a dream. It is a belief and a strong thing you strive to achieve-it is clear from this that he doesn’t truly understand your own motives.
You are who you are and you should be proud of that.
Don’t feel silly for falling for his charm, it happens to the best of us. You have that experience under your belt and now you will find it easier to recognise guys that are leading you on. Learn from it and grow as a person because of it. It is possible that he has hurt you and made you feel worthless-always remember that you are not worthless.
Some people have bad motives and it is possible that when they meet the right person for them they will be totally kicked into touch because that individual will make them understand everything that they have rejected in the past, such as, love, companionship and emotional attachment. You just weren’t meant to be that person. On the other hand, if it isn’t love from the right person that makes him see the error of his ways, then he will get his comeuppance elsewhere…maybe someone will break his heart or he will simply be run over by a car-who knows?
#4. Confused
This can probably be the best kind because it means he isn’t fully aware of your beliefs but you can explain it to him and he can understand and will most likely respect you for it. He may even stick around because he only likes you for you and you’re worth more to him than sexual pleasures. He may even be willing to wait with you and for you. The only negative is that because he has never come across this belief, there is a chance he could reject it and if he stays with you there is a possibility that he will want another form of release outside of sex.
It is a great opportunity to explain your values to a guy with an open mind who is more willing to understand something you hold dear to you and who will more than likely appreciate you all the more for it. If he does want something outside of sex, that is always a personal decision so never let yourself feel pressured into it or like he deserves it because he is ‘putting up’ with the no sex till marriage. It is still your body, not their toy.
#5. Respect and Agreement
You’re striking gold when you come across this look! Often the guys who give you this look will really respect your decision, wish they had done it themselves or become more attracted to you because you want to wait.
From my experience, the people who give you this look will turn out to be some of your closest friends or the most wonderful boyfriends/girlfriends.
You are more unique and intriguing to that person and stand out from modern society. It is also a very attractive quality so stand by what you believe in and if that person is truly right for you, then they too will stand right beside you and your beliefs!
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在线咨询下载客户端关注微信公众号&&&分类：Dear daughter,You are a wonderful person and your mother and I think the world of you. It will not be long before you leave home to make your way in the world. Can I please give you some friendly advice? Here are some things that you should never do.1. Never Look Down Upon Yourself.You are great and able to achieve great things so believe in yourself. When things go badly, never stop believing. Some girls get upset, blame themselves and lose self-esteem. All kinds of problems can follow.2. Never Get Obsessed With Your Appearance.We think you look great (though some of the clothes you wear worry us!). Please be happy with the person ,you are and the body you have. Eat reasonably, take exercise and be healthy. Some girls show too much concern about losing weight or getting the perfect shape. You look fine.3. Never Compromise Your Personal Safety.Never put yourself at serious risk. This means that you cannot trust people until you really know them and that sometimes you have to avoid things that look like they might be fun. Never get drunk or take drugs. Unluckily there are some bad people out there and it is best not to take risks.4. Never Give Less Than Your Best.We are very proud of what you have achieved so far. You should be proud too. Keep doing well. Keep trying your hardest at everything you do. No one can ask for more than that.5. Never Forget That Your Parents Love You.Whatever happens in life, your family will still be your family. Whatever difficulties you meet with, you can always talk to us and we will try to help. We are here for you.【小题1】 Why has the father written the letter to his daughter?A．To express his love for her.B．To give her some advice. C．To tell her what she should do.D．To help solve her problems.【小题2】What does the father think of his daughter’s appearance?A．He thinks she looks fine although she’s unhealthy.B．He is satisfied with the clothes his daughter wears. C．He thinks his daughter should be happy with her appearance.D．He thinks his daughter should lose weight to get the perfect shape.【小题3】The father advises his daughter not to __________.A．ask her parents for helpB．be proud of what she has achievedC．believe in herself when things go badlyD．stop trying her hardest at everything she does【小题4】What does the underlined sentence in Paragraph 4 probably mean?A．Never do anything funny.B．Never trust anybody. C．Never put yourself in danger.D．Never care about your safety.Dear daughter,You are a wonderful person and your mother and I think the world of you. It will not be long before you leave home to make your way in the world. Can I please give you some friendly advice? Here are some things that you should never do.1. Never Look Down Upon Yourself.You are great and able to achieve great things so believe in yourself. When things go badly, never stop believing. Some girls get upset, blame themselves and lose self-esteem. All kinds of problems can follow.2. Never Get Obsessed With Your Appearance.We think you look great (though some of the clothes you wear worry us!). Please be happy with the person ,you are and the body you have. Eat reasonably, take exercise and be healthy. Some girls show too much concern about losing weight or getting the perfect shape. You look fine.3. Never Compromise Your Personal Safety.Never put yourself at serious risk. This means that you cannot trust people until you really know them and that sometimes you have to avoid things that look like they might be fun. Never get drunk or take drugs. Unluckily there are some bad people out there and it is best not to take risks.4. Never Give Less Than Your Best.We are very proud of what you have achieved so far. You should be proud too. Keep doing well. Keep trying your hardest at everything you do. No one can ask for more than that.5. Never Forget That Your Parents Love You.Whatever happens in life, your family will still be your family. Whatever difficulties you meet with, you can always talk to us and we will try to help. We are here for you.【小题1】 Why has the father written the letter to his daughter?A．To express his love for her.B．To give her some advice. C．To tell her what she should do.D．To help solve her problems.【小题2】What does the father think of his daughter’s appearance?A．He thinks she looks fine although she’s unhealthy.B．He is satisfied with the clothes his daughter wears. C．He thinks his daughter should be happy with her appearance.D．He thinks his daughter should lose weight to get the perfect shape.【小题3】The father advises his daughter not to __________.A．ask her parents for helpB．be proud of what she has achievedC．believe in herself when things go badlyD．stop trying her hardest at everything she does【小题4】What does the underlined sentence in Paragraph 4 probably mean?A．Never do anything funny.B．Never trust anybody. C．Never put yourself in danger.D．Never care about your safety.科目:难易度:最佳答案【小题1】B【小题1】C【小题1】D【小题1】C解析略知识点:&&&&&&基础试题拔高试题热门知识点最新试题
关注我们官方微信关于跟谁学服务支持帮助中心Last summer, when Amanda R of Anaheim Hills, California, was running on a cross-country course with her team, she blacked out. “I got really dizzy,” she says. “I was out for a few minutes.” At first, Amanda thought she was just tired and didn’t think she had a health problem. She did go to the emergency room, where she was fine after tests, but she fainted (昏厥) again several days later as she was talking with her coach. Another doctor guessed that Amanda had blacked out “because we were in heat so much with not enough water and not enough of the right kind of foods”.Teens often don’t want to stop and take a break or don’t notice when they start to feel bad, doctors say. However, paying attention if you’re not feeling well is important, as Amanda learned.As a result, Amanda has changed her habits. “I drink a lot more water,” she says. “And put more salt in my diet. I’m eating more balanced meals.” Amanda advises teen athletes to trust their coaches and speak up when they’re not feeling well. “And recognize the difference between when you’re tired and when there’s something really wrong.”Some people － up to 3 percent of the population － sweat too much, even in cold weather. The condition, called hyperhidrosis (多汗), can affect many parts and it often runs in families － hands down from generation to generation. Too much sweating over the whole body could be a symptom of another medical condition. Doctors aren’t sure what causes hyperhidrosis, but using special medications or other treatments can help.【小题1】What caused the happening mentioned in the passage during Amanda’s running?A．She couldn’t breathe in enough air in the race.7 E7 Y+ h9 P1 [, A4 ]3 Q' c B．She didn’t eat anything before the race.
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在线咨询下载客户端关注微信公众号&&&分类：Last summer, when Amanda R of Anaheim Hills, California, was running on a cross-country course with her team, she blacked out. “I got really dizzy,” she says. “I was out for a few minutes.” At first, Amanda thought she was just tired and didn’t think she had a health problem. She did go to the emergency room, where she was fine after tests, but she fainted (昏厥) again several days later as she was talking with her coach. Another doctor guessed that Amanda had blacked out “because we were in heat so much with not enough water and not enough of the right kind of foods”.Teens often don’t want to stop and take a break or don’t notice when they start to feel bad, doctors say. However, paying attention if you’re not feeling well is important, as Amanda learned.As a result, Amanda has changed her habits. “I drink a lot more water,” she says. “And put more salt in my diet. I’m eating more balanced meals.” Amanda advises teen athletes to trust their coaches and speak up when they’re not feeling well. “And recognize the difference between when you’re tired and when there’s something really wrong.”Some people － up to 3 percent of the population － sweat too much, even in cold weather. The condition, called hyperhidrosis (多汗), can affect many parts and it often runs in families － hands down from generation to generation. Too much sweating over the whole body could be a symptom of another medical condition. Doctors aren’t sure what causes hyperhidrosis, but using special medications or other treatments can help.【小题1】What caused the happening mentioned in the passage during Amanda’s running?A．She couldn’t breathe in enough air in the race.7 E7 Y+ h9 P1 [, A4 ]3 Q' c B．She didn’t eat anything before the race.
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b4 I% V( E D．She neither drank enough water nor ate enough of the right kind of foods.6 i& h7 f: f8 O- `" b( Z 【小题2】What can we infer from Paragraph 4?A．There is no need to worry when sweating too much, even in cold weather.7 P5 B2 `$ j8 O: Y0 W+ S, A B．Hyperhidrosis may have a bad effect on your health.9 V3 `$ ^1 I) I+ U/ G0 B C．Doctors have discovered why people get hyperhidrosis.; g- g2 Y: S) J6 _: M D．Hyperhidrosis is a serious disease and no treatment can help.; X+ H# N8 h3 Z2 J( B& b 【小题3】The purpose of writing this passage is to____________.A．tell teens the proper ways to take exercise in summer.8 \/ K3 C, M! e, E! R8 b2 F" G B．tell teens not to run in hot summer.( K9 F3 S8 E/ X6 U9 W6 I C．tell teens to pay attention to hyperhidrosis in the summer exercise+ J& Q( E- B' P/ Z D．tell teens how to keep healthy.6 A0 O/ @# V8 I, g# ]4 X( W Last summer, when Amanda R of Anaheim Hills, California, was running on a cross-country course with her team, she blacked out. “I got really dizzy,” she says. “I was out for a few minutes.” At first, Amanda thought she was just tired and didn’t think she had a health problem. She did go to the emergency room, where she was fine after tests, but she fainted (昏厥) again several days later as she was talking with her coach. Another doctor guessed that Amanda had blacked out “because we were in heat so much with not enough water and not enough of the right kind of foods”.Teens often don’t want to stop and take a break or don’t notice when they start to feel bad, doctors say. However, paying attention if you’re not feeling well is important, as Amanda learned.As a result, Amanda has changed her habits. “I drink a lot more water,” she says. “And put more salt in my diet. I’m eating more balanced meals.” Amanda advises teen athletes to trust their coaches and speak up when they’re not feeling well. “And recognize the difference between when you’re tired and when there’s something really wrong.”Some people － up to 3 percent of the population － sweat too much, even in cold weather. The condition, called hyperhidrosis (多汗), can affect many parts and it often runs in families － hands down from generation to generation. Too much sweating over the whole body could be a symptom of another medical condition. Doctors aren’t sure what causes hyperhidrosis, but using special medications or other treatments can help.【小题1】What caused the happening mentioned in the passage during Amanda’s running?A．She couldn’t breathe in enough air in the race.7 E7 Y+ h9 P1 [, A4 ]3 Q' c B．She didn’t eat anything before the race.
K: S# M' @, M' G C．She had been running all summer without a rest.6 I1 K" h
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b4 I% V( E D．She neither drank enough water nor ate enough of the right kind of foods.6 i& h7 f: f8 O- `" b( Z 【小题2】What can we infer from Paragraph 4?A．There is no need to worry when sweating too much, even in cold weather.7 P5 B2 `$ j8 O: Y0 W+ S, A B．Hyperhidrosis may have a bad effect on your health.9 V3 `$ ^1 I) I+ U/ G0 B C．Doctors have discovered why people get hyperhidrosis.; g- g2 Y: S) J6 _: M D．Hyperhidrosis is a serious disease and no treatment can help.; X+ H# N8 h3 Z2 J( B& b 【小题3】The purpose of writing this passage is to____________.A．tell teens the proper ways to take exercise in summer.8 \/ K3 C, M! e, E! R8 b2 F" G B．tell teens not to run in hot summer.( K9 F3 S8 E/ X6 U9 W6 I C．tell teens to pay attention to hyperhidrosis in the summer exercise+ J& Q( E- B' P/ Z D．tell teens how to keep healthy.6 A0 O/ @# V8 I, g# ]4 X( W 科目:难易度:最佳答案【小题1】D【小题2】B【小题3】C解析试题分析：文章通过Amanda的事情，告诉大家夏天锻炼的时候要注意脱水，因为脱水会造成健康的危害，适当的补充水份和营养的食品会有帮助。【小题1】细节题：从第一段的句子：“because we were in heat so much with not enough water and not enough of the right kind of foods”.可知Amanda 在跑步的时候晕倒是因为没有喝足够的水，也没有吃足够多的适当的食物，选D【小题2】推理题：从第四段的句子：The condition, called hyperhidrosis (多汗), can affect many parts and it often runs in families － hands down from generation to generation.可知脱水可能对你的健康有很坏的影响，选B【小题3】写作意图题：文章通过Amanda的事情，告诉大家夏天锻炼的时候要注意脱水，选C 考点：考查健康类短文知识点:&&基础试题拔高试题热门知识点最新试题
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